Tuesday, February 21, 2012

What's Your Take?

It is a strange transition to be with someone else.  When you are on your own, you have so much time to yourself.  You are like your own therapist; You start to understand yourself.  Being with someone else on a daily have to see yourself as perceived by someone else and make a lot of adjustments.
Margo - quoted in Quirklyalone

Off-and-on, I've been reading Quirkyalone by Sasha Cagen.  I like to read about 4 books at once so the fact that I've read a little here and there of the book is typical of me.

One quote that sticks out in my mind is the quote above from Margo, identified as "quirkytogether."

What I like about the quote is that it balances the advantages and disadvantages of being single or in a relationship.  Similar to Margo, being single allows me ample time for reflection and for doing "my own thing" while being in a relationship puts my communication skills to the test : ) and offers me more insight into myself.

What's your take on the quote above?  Do you agree or disagree with it?

Image Credit:  Tcola,


  1. I totally and completely agree. I have never been in a relationship, never date, have never dated and really can't imagine doing so. I mean, I love my alone time and I think being with a man would just annoy me. I don't think I would care about his life nor do I want to start caring.

    1. It's great to hear from someone who's appreciative of her singular life. I think society overemphasizes being coupled/married. It's not what everyone desires.

      For some of us being single/living alone is the best way to live our lives and hopefully, society/the media will start to acknowledge that.

      Thanks for your comment, Rhona!